Wedding Present List

to go to the wedding.

I totally agree, it's pure greed, not for any other reason, no matter what anyone claims. I've never bought anything from a list in my life and never will if I give a gift at all, it is my choice. I remember one wedding where the bride was living in Fantasyland, she chose items that would bankrupt the average person, just outrageous prices, and that's when I decided to buy myself , or not buying at all.

it seems that all couples feel uncomfortable to ask their guests to buy gifts for them. However, it is important to consider that nearly all the wedding guests will want to buy a present for the happy couple and so what's the harm in giving them a little guidance? If customers want to spend money to buy a gift, is not it better to buy something, they love you and actually use?

Many people get gifts they do not need or like DONT.
Think it is helpful if you were given a list of items they need DONT.
And if you can not get something for them in the list, u can always make a donation in cash:).

I kind of agree espeically when it is not just a suggestion to buy towels, but a set of red check mark Xyz store Suchandsuch.
People have way too many things today.

I do not pay any attention to wedding lists. I buy something I may, if its on the list thats right - if not so be it.

gift card in stores like Bed, Bath & Beyond are great and a bit nicer than cut a check.

The Register is not designed for people to pay to go to the wedding. It is intended for those considering buying a gift, so it does not duplicate gifts or gifts that the couple would not use it anyway.

Although "the practical thing to do, to distribute a list, always feels a little freedom for me, because if all items have been bought cheaper, and if some guests can not afford more expensive . So why not do better, and ask that instead of gifts, a box will be placed at the entrance to the wedding reception, and put money in, as it might go to the filing of a house, or a dishwasher and washer / dryer etc., always feels uncomfortable for me, as your payment for your meal!

I've never given anyone a list of wedding gift. I signed up, yes, but that's because my hosts wanted to know what we would like, if they want to give us a gift. This is not a list of requests for gifts, something for guests to make it more convenient for them. They requested a list, so I made one. I still do not give it to them. They had to find their own means.

They were invited because we wanted there to celebrate with us. Nothing more, nothing less. We expected no gifts, gifts we have been a pleasant surprise:)

To be honest, the newlyweds never take the opinion that this come from anyway. Then go to your friends wedding, and when you see them again in a month's time, ask them if they liked the gravy boat you've given them. You gave them a gravy boat, but they probably will not remember, and say yes and thank you anyway.

Works a treat, believe me ;-)